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How to Find Sex

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The best thing about North American Girls is the sheer diversity which means different sexual experiences. North America being the third largest continent has a wide range of women in the different countries. Some of the prominent countries in the region are the United States of America, Canada, Mexico, Greenland, Cuba, Costa Rica etc. The experience of having sex with local women in all these countries will be very different from each other and one can possibly not make a generalisation as to how it is. However, one thing that can be said with certainty is that in most of the countries in this region, getting laid is an unforgettable experience and you would enjoy the company of a female partner. Finding sex will depend on the country you are visiting and also the city but we will give you a general idea so it will become easier for you to find sex in North America.

Starting off with the country which ranks the number one for getting laid; United States of America. The US is the easiest country to get laid in the world. And it shouldn’t be surprising why it’s at the top of the list. Americans are known to be some of the most promiscuous people in the world. On average, from the age of 18-60, heterosexual American men and women engage with 4-6 sexual partners. And we’re not speaking based on statistics alone. If you ever visit cities like New York, Austin, Las Vegas you’d come to know how wild Americans can truly be. Take the younger generation as an example, most of them lose their virginity in their sophomore years. But an exciting singles life isn’t the only reason the U.S is at the top of this list. Couples can also find sexual satisfaction with swinger clubs scattered all across the country. To give you some perspective, San Francisco alone has 12 lifestyle clubs. Every day you can meet new couples who are into cuckolds and group sex. And the cherry on top is that most people are also up for experimenting in their sex lives. They aren’t afraid of exploring different kinks. As a result, you can find plenty of BDSM clubs and a large community of kinksters online. In short, regardless of your sexual preferences and gender, the U.S wouldn’t disappoint you. You have to be straightforward with your approach in US. Just go up to the girl and start flirting. If she does not respond then move on to the next one. If you are being too subtle with the hints then you might not end up getting laid. Venue also plays a key role so make sure you are hitting all the right places like clubs, bars etc.

Canada is known for its liberal values, and it is one of the easiest countries to have sex with. A sex survey by Durex reveals that61%of men in Canada enjoy good sex lives. And another survey suggests that only 25% of female students always use condoms. So if you put two and two together, the results of the surveys above aren’t surprising. However, raw sex isn’t the only reason behind the good sex life of men in Canada. In fact, the number of females in major Canadian cities like Toronto,Montreal and Vancouver score higher than men. This is why it’s safe to say that if you’re a single man, you might have the time of your life in Canada.

Mexican are horny and into parties. In fact, it’s easy to find wild encounters here. An interesting thing is destinations like Cancun have several nude resorts where sexual opportunities are abundant. Cancun is definitely in of the easiest cities in the world to get laid. Mexico City and Tijuana are also popular destinations, particularly among Americans. You’ll find plenty of white men from across the border here to make some naughty memories. Similarly, couples can also enjoy their vacations as Mexico has more than 20 swinger clubs. There are Mexican couples as well worldwide swingers.

Things are slightly different in Costa Rica. While the girls are obsessed with gringos (local slang for white guys), the sex culture isn't as advanced. Be forewarned that a girl who is willing to sleep with you (on the basis of knowing you a couple hours) will expect you to pay for everything (drinks etc). Women in Costa Rica (and Latin America in general) don't behave the same way than in the US. Gender roles are still very much alive, and in traditional society, a "nice girl" doesn't sleep around with strangers. Those that do are considered to have "loose morals" (one may or may not agree with this judgment, but it is a reality in Costa Rican society). In Jaco especially, any woman who approaches you and asks you to buy her a drink is 99% certain to be a prostitute. Some of them are genuinely fun to be with, but the fact remains that if you want them to put out, you're going to have to drop some colones (local currency). Even if the girl isn't a prostitute, it creates an unequal relationship. If you're just after sex, that's fine, but don't expect any meaningful connection. You are more likely to find some fun, relatable girls among female tourists. Like mentioned above, this can be applied to other Central American countries as well which include Belize. El Salvador, Guatemala, Honduras, Nicaragua, Panama etc.

In many countries there is a “flirting pattern”: men make eye contact with women, approach them, start a conversation and ask for their phone number. Then they’ll take them on a date. This is not the case in Greenland. It is quite common for women to make the first move, a custom which could be attributed to the fact that Greenland society has been built on an egalitarian model—everyone is considered equal. Greenlanders’ directness has its advantages and its disadvantages. The good part is you almost always know what’s going on. If someone likes you, chances are you’ll know right from the beginning.

Sex on the First Date

Having sex on the first date might seem like a very common idea especially for people in the US. However, research shows that it is not as common as one might think. Just one in three American adults admit to having hit the sack on a first date, which means two thirds of the population is waiting at least for Date No. 2 before they get naked and get down. You probably won't be surprised to find out that men are more likely to have sex on a first date than women. Nearly half of men (46 percent) have taken their first dates to bed, while just 33 percent of women admitted to the same. But surprisingly, age doesn't seem to be much of a factor when it comes to first-date sex—22 percent of adults ages 18 to 24 have had it, while 39 percent of adults 25 to 54 have hopped in the sack during Date No. 1. Also interesting is that there seems to be a certain salary range that is more sexually adventurous than all others. The lucky number? Adults who made $75,000 to $99,999 were the most likely to engage in first-date sex. Those who made less than $25,000 were the least likely, at just 25 percent.Finally, 45 percent of adults who copped to getting it on during a first date are divorced, while 31 percent are married and 36 percent are single. (The study did not make a correlation between whether first-date sex could lead to a happier or less successful relationship). Things seem to be even more stringent in Central America but slightly more relaxed in Mexico and Greenland.

The question then arises; how can you get laid on the first date? Having sex on the first date depends on a lot of things. There are no hard and fast rules but there are some thing that you can do in order to increase your chances of having hot and steamy sex by the end of your first date.

  • Set the right vibe/frame - The goal is to show that you are a dominant/sexual man from the start. And create a fun & flirty vibe full of sexual tension. In cold approach (especially during the daytime), you can do this implicitly. Never blatantly make sexual remarks or try to touch her too much (basically you want to always avoid being the “creep” who has no understanding of social norms). Instead, be more implicit and suggestive. You can build sexual tension by holding very strong eye contact, having a solid body language, and strategically inserting small pauses at the right time.
  • Screening - This very much bleeds into vibing. During an interaction, you should start screening right from the get go by being a confident dominant man who’s not ashamed of his sexuality or is trying to hide his intentions (while still being very socially calibrated), you can screen out the majority of prude chicks. Then, just by being flirty, some more of the prude chicks will get screened out. And that is actually a very good thing. A high value guy knows that not every attractive girl will meet his criteria and will place his time above all else (while a confused PUA will try to go on a date with every girl thinking that it’s all about game). Furthermore, there will be an additional level of screening when you go to setup the date (more on this later).
  • Setting up the date - This is a small, but extremely crucial step to get right. You want to avoid dates that have a lower probability of resulting in sex. You should keep your focus only on 3 types of first dates: Straight to your place, bar walking distance to your place and coffee shop walking distance to you place. That’s it. Save the funky activity dates for after you have banged the girl and she becomes your booty call.
  • Preparing for the date - This is also very important and a lot of this should be common sense that is unfortunately sometimes ignored. First off, you want to clean your place. Seeing trash everywhere will turn off most chicks. Secondly, you want to clean yourself. Take a shower and put on deodorant before your date. Nothing turns a girl off like body odor, so don’t be that guy. Thirdly, have some chill music playing in the background. Believe it or not, this makes a difference. Some good background music has a strong subconscious effect and will reduce the awkwardness of meeting a stranger (if a chick is particularly shy or tense, ask her what her favorite type of music is and then put it on. This works really well and subconsciously creates instant comfort for her) Last but not least, have a variety of alcohol. No, you’re not trying to get the girl drunk but, just by having a drink in her hand will help her subconsciously relax and take the social pressure off. Most girls wants to be able to say something like “Yeah, you know we had a few drinks and one thing lead to another”
  • The date - Whether you meet the girl at a bar or at your place, you want to maintain the vibe we talked about from the start. Give her a confident hug and keep things fun and flirty. And equally importantly, assume compliance. When meeting her inside my apartment, always just assume that she’s coming with you. Then, assume that she’s going to be comfortable going inside. For the first few minutes, be laidback and give her a chance to get comfortable with the new surroundings. Once you sense that she is, then you should smoothly start escalating. There is no exact sequence you need to follow, just be smooth and gradually escalate. The key thing to keep in mind is that she is very likely at your place for a reason. It’s your game to lose, but as long as you make her feel comfortable, turn her on, and successfully overcome any possible concerns, then you will very likely smash.

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Sexual Activity of North American Women

Sex, in most of the countries in the region is considered normal and casual and it is not stigmatised, like in the South Asian countries. As long as two consenting adults are engaging in sexual intercourse, no one interferes or judges. However, the way that people have sex varies from country to country. there is a contrast among different countries when it comes to the act of sex itself. Some of the countries like USA and Canada are open to public displays of affection and it is normal for people to engage in PDA. Whereas, in other relatively conservative countries like Cuba and Jamaica, people tend to think of sex as a private affair and it is against the societal norms to be too intimate with your partner in public places.

Hence, we suggest that you search for the specific country that you intend to visit and read up about it in depth and more detail in order to familiarise yourself with what's normal before you visit the country

Best Hookup Apps

The best dating apps of North America are:

  • Bumble
  • Hinge
  • Tinder
  • OkCupid
  • Coffee meets Bagel
  • Happn
  • The League
  • Clover
  • Plenty of Fish

One-Night Stands (ONS)

According to historians New York City is where the trend of one night stands started from with a group of bohemian women who wanted to discover sexual freedom and wanted to have sex with whoever they want. After birth control pills were legalised in the United States of America then one night stands became even more common so USA generally will be the best country for having a one night stand. Other than the US, one night stands are common pretty much everywhere in North America like Canada, Mexico, Costa Rica, Belize etc.

The trick is where and how you meet these women. Online dating websites like Tinder, Happn, Badoo are notorious for having a user base interested in one night stands only.

Your encounters and experiences will also depend on how good are you at the game. How good are you at flirting, keeping the girl interested and making her feel flattered. One thing you should always remember is to keep asking for her consent. Make sure she is comfortable with whatever you're doing and whatever goes on between the two of you.

Friends with Benefits (FWB)

Generally, when you’re dating someone, you have special feelings for them. In friends with benefits scenarios, you’re just friends — friends who hang out and sometimes have sex/be intimate with each other. People who are friends with benefits may be free to date other people. The physical stuff they do is usually “no strings attached”— they’re not necessarily committed to each other.

There are different reasons why friends with benefits may work for some people. For example:

  • It can feel safe/fun to explore your sexuality with a trusted friend.
  • Friends with benefits can be an alternative for people who don’t want the commitment of a dating relationship.
  • People who have strong romantic feelings for a friend may hope that a friends with benefits relationship will evolve into a dating relationship.

Friends with Benefits is a common concept in United States of America,Greenland and Canada. Mexico and Central America is catching up with the idea but it is definitely not a taboo in those regions as well. Having an arrangement like this can be great if you are really into a friend of yours but do not want to commit to a full fledged relationship. It can be liberating if you both have the same expectations and some ground rules are discussed but if you both are not on the same page then it can become a mess real quick.

Casual Sex Partners

People may define casual sex as sexual interactions that take place outside a committed relationship. Often, these encounters occur between individuals without any expectation of a future romantic relationship. Casual sex may cover a variety of sexual and intimate behaviors, up to and including sexual intercourse.

Widespread terminology also refers to casual sexual encounters as hookups, booty calls, or one-night stands. In many cases, casual sex only occurs once between partners. However, other casual sexual encounters may be ongoing. In popular culture, many people refer to a long-term casual sex partner as a “friend with benefits.”

You can easily find a casual sex partner in North America. It will be slightly difficult to do with the Latinas because they are old school and still have traditional values but so many girls are open to having casual sex partner. The kind of girls you should focus on are the ones who are busy and focusing on their careers so they do not have the time for a committed relationship. You can find a casual sex partner on dating apps and in bars, nightclubs etc.

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