How to Find Sex
London being the capital of England, United Kingdom is a multi cultural city which makes the dating and hookup scene of this city very progressive and liberal. This means getting laid and finding sex in the city of London will be a relatively easier task and overall a pleasant experience.
There are some general tips that you can follow which will help you in finding sex in London:
- The right venue: This will play a vital role in finding sex. Places like nightclubs, bars, pubs, private parties or cafes, malls etc will help you meet up with single and horny girls who are looking to get laid. The music, ambience and alcohol all play a part in getting them in the mood to get laid.
- Make use of online dating apps: Online dating and hooking up apps are the perfect way of finding sex in a city like London. Plenty of girls from all ethnicities, shapes and sizes are registered on these apps and you can start chatting with them with just a swipe. More detail on these apps is mentioned in the later sections.
- Be open and straightforward: when you start chatting with a girl be it in person or online, it’ll help you a lot if you’re open and straightforward about what you’re looking for. This will always be easier to do online but when you’re doing it in person you will have to be more careful because there’s a fine line between being sleazy and being straightforward.
- Dress up and flaunt a little: Looking well put together and neat will always help you in finding sex. Flaunting a little like staying in a decent place, buying her drinks or bringing her some flowers on a date will impress her and she will reciprocate positively towards your responses.
Sex on the First Date
It is possible to have sex on the first date in a city like London. Actually there’s a very fair possibility of that happening since most of the girls are sexually liberated and progressive in their views (not to mention very horny). It is common to go clubbing on your first date or even for dinner and by the end a steamy make out session can result in some equally hot and steamy sexual encounter. There are some things that can help you getting laid on the first date as well.
- Age: The younger crowd is usually ok having a sexually encounter on the first date. They are more liberal and adventurous so they do not mind having sex on the first date. They have also moved away from the notion of shame that is usually attached to having sex on the first date. So if you’re going out with a twenty something old, she will be reciprocate to your sexual advances more positively than a thirty something old would.
- Privacy: It is natural for couples to get more intimate in a private space. If you are able to get a car and chauffeur, you can go pick her up and try hand holding etc and on the way back you can try making out with her in the car to get her all wet and horny. She is more likely to have sex with you on the first date if you are able to have some private intimate moments during the date. Avoid places that are too crowded and public for the date.
- Innuendos: This can be slightly tricky so only include sexual innuendos in the conversation if you have done it before or if you’re confident that you can pull it off without it sounding sleazy. It also depends on the mood of the girl so try turning the discussion towards a more provocative theme and judge her response. If she encourages it then take it up a notch.
- Alcohol: A few drinks can help you both relax and be more carefree. It’ll also give you a boost of confidence and the girl will also get a bit bolder after downing a few. Try rubbing her thighs after a few drinks and lightly caressing her shoulder or a little peck on the cheek.
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Sexual Activity of English Women
English women start getting sexually active at an early age. In each UK nation, the age of consent (the legal age when people can engage in sexual activity) is 16-years-old. In a study that was conducted using half a million people to identify cities with the most sexually active women, London was at number one. This should give you an idea about how sexually liberated the women of London are. They want to get laid and they are okay with all kind of arrangements, be it a long term relationship, one night stands, casual sex partners, friends with benefits etc. This will make things easier for you and you will find a women looking for the same things as you.
Best Hookup Apps
Plenty of hookup apps in London to register yourself on. These are the perfect way to get into the game and be a part of the hookup culture. Following are some of the best hookup apps in London:
- Tinder: Tinder is undoubtedly the leading hookup app. SO many great options to choose from and its super quick so an ideal option for those travelling and are on the go.
- Thursdays: This is a very exclusive hookup app and as the name suggests it only works on Thursdays. It gives you 24 hours to chase a match and the best part about this app is that no cat fishing is allowed and you can register by invite only. While this is a pro but for people who are in London for a very short while the Thursday exclusive part might not be feasible.
- OkCupid: The best app for woke millennials! Looking for like minded individuals to hook up with? This should be your go to app. Things like compatibility scores, gender pronouns, sexual orientation options are all a part of it.
- AdultFriendFinder: Looking to have some really wild and crazy sex? This is the ideal app. It will be like having sex with a porn star! However, there can be a lot of scam profiles on this app as well so stay mindful over the red flags.
- Pure: This app gurantees no strings attached sex. It is also very fast so perfect for those who are in a hurry.
One-Night Stands (ONS)
One night stands are extremely common in London. It’s not something that happens rarely or you have to work very hard in order to have a one night stand. It’s actually pretty easy to have a One night stand in London. There are two ways to achieve it which are considered to be the most successful. One way is to go clubbing and try to hit on girls. If someone doesn’t respond positively then move on to the next one. Buy her a couple of drinks, dance with her and get a little seductive like a bit of grinding and caressing. If she reciprocates then try making out with her and then ask her if she’ll like to go back to your place. This is usually how one night stands happen and you’ll be amazed by how good the sex is. English girls can get really kinky in bed and the night will end in a lot of moaning and screaming (the good kind). Some of the clubs you can go to are:
The second way is to scour online dating apps or hookup apps. The details of these apps are in the aforementioned section. This is a fool proof way because these hookup apps have made the casual dating culture and the concept of one night stands increasingly common. These hookup apps are a great way to find instant gratification but without the fear of judgement. You can go through a list of endless girls and find the one you'd like to get laid with (provided she feels the same way as well). You will be able to hold a conversation more confidently and you can be more straightforward about what you're looking for without creeping out the girls. Since the hookup apps are specifically designed for the purpose of hooking up it also eliminates the pool of girls who are not looking to get laid and you will not be wasting your efforts on the wrong girls.
Friends with Benefits (FWB)
Friends with benefits as the name suggests in a sexual relationship between two friends with no strings attached. This is a very common arrangement and is not considered to be a taboo in a city like London. If you are wondering how can you initiate a situation like this then keep on reading. If you're feeling sexual tension between a girl you're friends with then make your move. Do not have a detailed conversation before anything happens. That will just make things weird and awkward. A spontaneous sexual encounter with a friend will automatically lead to the conversation. You can confess to her that you are sexually attracted towards her and you find her very hot but also explain that you are not ready for a relationship. Propose this arrangement and then dodge her reaction. Consider the pros and cons before doing it because it will change the dynamic of your friendship forever but if it is worth it then go for it.
Casual Sex Partners
While it is great to be in a committed relationship, sometimes all you need is to be in a casual arrangement with a sex partner and a no strings attached sort of thing. This is not a taboo in a city like London. On the contrary, these arrangements are commonly found and also accepted. The best way to find a casual sex partner is through hookup apps. Avoid going around clubs or malls looking for a casual sex partner because at most those will result in a one night stand and not recurring sexual encounters. Hookup apps help you connect with like minded individuals who are looking for the same thing and it is so much easier to have awkward conversations through a screen rather than doing it face to face.